Don’Äôt Always Be Available

Being Available May Decrease Your Value

Think of all the times you say yes or agree with what someone is telling or asking something of you. I have by my observations concluded that people who are always available will face the challenge of having to do the bidding of those around them. And in the process the person saying yes will decrease in value because of it.

Give Yourself Value

If you almost always say yes people will expect that of you and seek you out for help when their needs need helping. But before we get too far along I am a helper and probably will always be that way, it’Äôs just the way I am. But here’Äôs the point of my words. Everyone should be appreciated for helping those that need help, but not be expected to do it. If your life is to have value then that value must be given to you by yourself. In other words you should be important to yourself and because of that you are saying to the world I’Äôm important and that’Äôs the way I feel about myself.

No Helps Create Value

To achieve value it is sometimes necessary to say no, not because you cant or don’Äôt want to but because it increases your worth in the eyes of those who are seeking your help. We all need and deserve credit for our contributions to making the world a better place because we here. Its good food for the brain and helps keep harmony in the mind.

Value is Nourishment to the Mind

Today more then ever we are greatly aware of what the mind can do to us if we fail to produce wellness that the mind can use to keep functioning in a fashion that brings us happiness and physical well being. Unhappiness and depression are constantly waiting around the corner to sell us a bag of goods that were not important and maybe we should consider doing ourselves harm because of it.

So say no more and people will value your help more and that will help you feel better about yourself.


Don L. Terrill

photo by Meme!